Communication is an important way for people to exchange emotions and resolve conflicts. No matter what kind of conflicts arise between people, as long as both parties are still willing to communicate and express their dissatisfaction, their conflicts will be resolved.
In love, when couples get along day and night, misunderstandings and contradictions will inevitably arise. As long as couples are willing to resolve their conflicts in a timely manner through communication, their relationship will become more stable.
If there is a conflict between the lovers, they do not try to solve the problem in time, and they are unwilling to actively communicate with each other because of anger or emotional disturbance, then the relationship will be on the verge of danger.
But sometimes, when there is a conflict between couples and try to communicate, the conflict is even bigger due to the wrong communication method, so how to communicate effectively?
1. Face-to-face communication
When there is a conflict between couples, the most direct solution is to sit down and communicate face-to-face, and both express their true thoughts to resolve the conflict between the two parties.
It's best not to communicate on the phone, because you can't see the other person's expression, and you can't give each other a hug at a critical moment.
2. Choose a witty way
Sometimes, the reason why couples have conflicts but are unwilling to resolve them is just because both parties are angry and can't let themselves down to communicate. At this time, if one person can make the other person laugh in a humorous way, the conflict between them will naturally be resolved smoothly.
In love, there is no distinction between who is right and who is wrong. Taking the initiative is actually not ashamed, but it can reflect tolerance and love for the other party.
3. Change the topic to communicate
When there is a conflict between lovers, if they do not communicate in time and the two parties do not communicate for a long time, it will be difficult to maintain the relationship.
If couples are embarrassed to apologize to each other first, then they can choose to ignore the contradiction and use other topics to solve the contradiction between them.
In fact, the contradiction is not terrible, the fear is that each other is unwilling to solve the contradiction through communication, so that the contradiction will accumulate and deepen, and thus develop to the point of irreconcilability.
Honesty and communication are necessary, and nothing can replace the communication between couples. It's great to have a relationship where two people sit down and communicate well.
Even partners who have been married for decades will need to talk about the trivial things and emotions of today while eating. They also need to open up and put all their thoughts in front of each other in times of difficulty.
Usually when couples get along, if they can do the following points, they can minimize the number of quarrels.
1. Do not hide anything from the other party
There must be no concealment between two people. No matter what, you should tell the other party first, because the other party must be regarded as the most trusted person in order to ensure the durability of the relationship between the two.
2. Do not run away from problems
When two people encounter a problem, they must choose to solve it head-on, and never solve the problem by escaping, knowing that escaping will only make the problem bigger and bigger. Facing the disputes between two people correctly is an important criterion for maintaining our love.
3. Empathy
You should both consider each other's point of view. Sometimes, if we are willing to give each other a chance to explain and try not to value our self-esteem as much, it may lead to an outcome that you are completely unexpected.
